Dating After Divorce

 A Divorced Man’s Survival Guide to Dating After DivorDating After Divorcece

 

S0 are you a divorced man trying to get back into dating after divorce and wondering how you are going to handle all this? Are you a middle-aged man and now single again after being in a long relationship. Looking back and taking a scroll down memory lane you realize that you are not the man that you were before.

You got married, and the person you are today may have changed dramatically over the years from the man you were. Back then you may have felt like girls came around easily and or for others maybe that became a task.

Now reality hits that the man you were is no longer there,  and the man you became just isn’t enough, you are now single again and unsure of where to begin. You’re scared of what is out there now aren’t you. You don’t have any game left, or maybe you never had it.

Men change when their married; it’s all a part of the society system. We are trained by it, the media, our parents, people, news, work, movies, and mostly by women. You have done what you felt was the proper thing for a man to do based on society’s rules and what you learned along the way. You worked half of your life away to make a decent living to support the marriage and your family, and now your trying to get back into dating after divorce

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How To Attract Younger Women

 

The 10 Must Have Rules on How to Attract Younger Women

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How to Attract Younger WomenHow To Attract Younger Women

If you could imagine the ideal setting with your social life and women, how would it be? Can you imagine yourself to be charismatically engaging the crowd ? What girl would you imagine walking beside you, yet allowing you to lead and in awe of your use of power and charisma that takes over the area? As you are walking around and working the room, you can’t help but notice the young and beautiful specimens. They all are dressed in jaw dropping body shaping outfits that show off their young, feminine bodies. These young women are at their prime age of peak  fit qualities. Is the girl on your side of the same level as I am describing? I am guessing if you’re like most men, she would be a hot younger woman of course. Is this in your scope of reality? Because if it is not, you need to make it so and learn how to attract younger women. I’ve taken some of the most important parts from the Dating Younger Women Ebook and summarized them here for you.

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How To Attract Women

Learn How To Attract Women by Learning What is Attraction

What is attraction

 

Attraction by definition is when someone becomes interested in another person. This doesn’t have to be purely a sexual way. You get attracted to things you might want in your life or simply find it interesting enough to explore more at that time period. When we talk about attraction in dating science, we are talking about when a woman starts to look at you in a sexual way, or at least as a possible sexual partner. We are talking about how to attract women to us and to want us. The key to finding out how to attract women is by learning what is attraction really.

How To Attract Women

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Attracting Women – What is Pre-Selection?

Use Pre-Selection to Meet More Women!

 

Attracting Women   What is Pre Selection?

Pre-selection is part of what we call a display of Higher value, or a DHV. Pre-selection in a nut shell is exactly how it sounds. You are thought of as pre-selected when a woman observes the actions of other women in your life. For example if you walk into a club with a pretty girl, and many others are happy to see you and are open and social with you. This shows any observing women that you are ok with other women; Therefore, there must be something appealing about you that she would find interesting too. And if you recall from our definition of attraction , having interest is having some sort of attraction. 

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Dating After Divorce – What To Do First

If you just got over from a divorce, you may ask,

where should I start

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What should I do? Well, the first thing you should put into consideration is yourself. Look at yourself, the things you do, the things you are and what you have as a value.

What do I mean by “as Value”?  Well the world works on something called value. Our dollar bill has a value given to it by nothing more than society agreeing that it stands for a certain amount of value. There is nothing behind that dollar that makes it worth any value except what we give it. When you meet people they will size you up based on the value you offer as a person. I am sure that as you are reading this, you may say, no they don’t, or not everyone is like that. Well, on a logical and conscious level you are right. But I am not talking about them overtly thinking about this and making determinations based on logical overt thoughts in their head. It’s a sub conscious process that happens behind the scenes in our heads that is not even noticeable to our minds when we are doing it, but we do it, all of us. It’s a part of human nature and evolution. 

I am not just talking about money or toys or other material things. As a matter of fact it usually has more to do with social value. You have to know that you can make yourself much more valuable to people by improving yourself. To improve ourselves and to give more value to others may sound little outwardly approval seeking, (which is very bad and we will describe in more detail later), but it isn’t what we are talking about here. It’s about not being a stick in the mud and thinking that doing nothing for you is somehow being non approval seeking. We are talking about realizing how the world works at an animalistic level and learning how to become the best we can be for ourselves, not for others. It’s the side benefit of becoming more valuable to others that is the great intangible thing we don’t realize which can help us keep motivated.

It is very important to dive into learning about yourself, your strengths and your weaknesses. Find out where and what you want to do better in it. For our purposes we will assume it is dating and social life. Let’s face it; if you want to be very successful at dating, you have to be better at being social. They come hand in hand and when you get better at them both your life becomes so much better in every way. One factor is attractiveness from the physical appearance perspective. Many in this industry will tell you that looks don’t matter. And I will agree to a certain extent. Yes, you don’t have to be the best looking guy, and as a matter of fact being very good looking can be a disadvantage at most times.

Improving yourself to be the best you can be is a very positive thing for you to do for yourself and for your social life. Become the best you that you can be. This is a very important point here. I am not, and no one should ever, try and compare themselves and rate themselves to others. EVER! It’s not helpful; it is not based in anything that improves you. You are you, and your intricacies are what make you. No one is like you and so there is nothing to compare you with others but your old you. But you can improve a lot about yourself to make a more attractive you. 

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