Dating After Divorce

 A Divorced Man’s Survival Guide to Dating After DivorA Divorced Man Survival Guide to Datingce

 

S0 are you a divorced man trying to get back into dating after divorce and wondering how you are going to handle all this? Are you a middle-aged man and now single again after being in a long relationship. Looking back and taking a scroll down memory lane you realize that you are not the man that you were before.

You got married, and the person you are today may have changed dramatically over the years from the man you were. Back then you may have felt like girls came around easily and or for others maybe that became a task.

Now reality hits that the man you were is no longer there,  and the man you became just isn’t enough, you are now single again and unsure of where to begin. You’re scared of what is out there now aren’t you. You don’t have any game left, or maybe you never had it.

Men change when their married; it’s all a part of the society system. We are trained by it, the media, our parents, people, news, work, movies, and mostly by women. You have done what you felt was the proper thing for a man to do based on society’s rules and what you learned along the way. You worked half of your life away to make a decent living to support the marriage and your family, and now your trying to get back into dating after divorce

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How To Attract Women

Learn How To Attract Women by Learning What is Attraction

What is attraction

 

Attraction by definition is when someone becomes interested in another person. This doesn’t have to be purely a sexual way. You get attracted to things you might want in your life or simply find it interesting enough to explore more at that time period. When we talk about attraction in dating science, we are talking about when a woman starts to look at you in a sexual way, or at least as a possible sexual partner. We are talking about how to attract women to us and to want us. The key to finding out how to attract women is by learning what is attraction really.

How to Attract Women

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How To Attract Younger Women

 

The 10 Must Have Rules on How to Attract Younger Women

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If you could imagine the ideal setting with your social life and women, how would it be? Can you imagine yourself to be charismatically engaging the crowd ? What girl would you imagine walking beside you, yet allowing you to lead and in awe of your use of power and charisma that takes over the area? As you are walking around and working the room, you can’t help but notice the young and beautiful specimens. They all are dressed in jaw dropping body shaping outfits that show off their young, feminine bodies. These young women are at their prime age of peak  fit qualities. Is the girl on your side of the same level as I am describing? I am guessing if you’re like most men, she would be a hot younger woman of course. Is this in your scope of reality? Because if it is not, you need to make it so and learn how to attract younger women. I’ve taken some of the most important parts from the Dating Younger Women Ebook and summarized them here for you.

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Dating After Divorce – What To Do First

If you just got over from a divorce, you may ask,

where should I start

?

What should I do? Well, the first thing you should put into consideration is yourself. Look at yourself, the things you do, the things you are and what you have as a value.

What do I mean by “as Value”?  Well the world works on something called value. Our dollar bill has a value given to it by nothing more than society agreeing that it stands for a certain amount of value. There is nothing behind that dollar that makes it worth any value except what we give it. When you meet people they will size you up based on the value you offer as a person. I am sure that as you are reading this, you may say, no they don’t, or not everyone is like that. Well, on a logical and conscious level you are right. But I am not talking about them overtly thinking about this and making determinations based on logical overt thoughts in their head. It’s a sub conscious process that happens behind the scenes in our heads that is not even noticeable to our minds when we are doing it, but we do it, all of us. It’s a part of human nature and evolution. 

I am not just talking about money or toys or other material things. As a matter of fact it usually has more to do with social value. You have to know that you can make yourself much more valuable to people by improving yourself. To improve ourselves and to give more value to others may sound little outwardly approval seeking, (which is very bad and we will describe in more detail later), but it isn’t what we are talking about here. It’s about not being a stick in the mud and thinking that doing nothing for you is somehow being non approval seeking. We are talking about realizing how the world works at an animalistic level and learning how to become the best we can be for ourselves, not for others. It’s the side benefit of becoming more valuable to others that is the great intangible thing we don’t realize which can help us keep motivated.

It is very important to dive into learning about yourself, your strengths and your weaknesses. Find out where and what you want to do better in it. For our purposes we will assume it is dating and social life. Let’s face it; if you want to be very successful at dating, you have to be better at being social. They come hand in hand and when you get better at them both your life becomes so much better in every way. One factor is attractiveness from the physical appearance perspective. Many in this industry will tell you that looks don’t matter. And I will agree to a certain extent. Yes, you don’t have to be the best looking guy, and as a matter of fact being very good looking can be a disadvantage at most times.

Improving yourself to be the best you can be is a very positive thing for you to do for yourself and for your social life. Become the best you that you can be. This is a very important point here. I am not, and no one should ever, try and compare themselves and rate themselves to others. EVER! It’s not helpful; it is not based in anything that improves you. You are you, and your intricacies are what make you. No one is like you and so there is nothing to compare you with others but your old you. But you can improve a lot about yourself to make a more attractive you. 

How To Attract Women By Building A Better You

 

In how to attract women by building a better you, there are several things you need to learn and you need to improve, and one of them is Style. Style can make or break you. If you start going out and you look out of place because you just don’t fit in, your social value will plummet. Most girls are very worried about their social value, especially while out at a club. Young women care about who they are seen with. It’s always ok to be with the cool older guy, but not the creepy, out of style older guy.

You need to look like you have a clue on what is trendy. This does not mean you have to spend a lot of money. Trust me; I have learned the hard way that just because you spent a lot on an outfit, doesn’t mean it’s cool. Part of that is getting in better shape. It’s easy to make anything look good if your body looks good.

The key here is to find something that fits you well and is stylish. I do it with V neck t-shirts these days. That seems to be the style, and I am glad because I love the type of shirt. A lot of times my shirts only cost me 6 bucks. Find yourself some nice designer jeans though. These are a must. Make sure they fit well and have good style to them. These might cost a lot, but one or two pairs will be all you need and worth the investment for the times you want to look really sharp. Just make sure to save them for the times you need to look your sharpest.

1.Get your outfits fitted by a tailor. Most shirts are very square. If you go and get the waist brought in more tapered, it will make your body look more tapered, hence, better. It’s all in the fit! Make the outfit fit you the best it can, and this will do wonders.

2.  Get yourself some nice shoes. If you’re going to invest in anything, invest in a few pair of designer jeans and some nice shoes. You need a pair of nice dress shoes, and a few pair of some cool dress down shoes. It always depends on your area and time period but there is always a style of dress shoe that is in, and always a dress down shoe that is in.

3. Belts. Make sure to have some nice belts. Match your shoes! Women look at this stuff    guys.

4. Accessories. Find some accessories that fit the style you want to be. Watches are the most important, followed by a good neck chain of some sort. Stay away from gold. If it’s a v neck t, then it needs to be longer than the V. If it’s a button up, it needs to be shorter.

 The biggest thing about style is you need to look like you pay attention. Look around you; see what cool guys are wearing. What looks good on people? Check out magazines, and TV, and so forth. Just make sure to make it important. It will do wonders for you. No girl wants a guy that looks out of style. Girls want to be proud of you as their man, and that means being proud when they are with you, especially if you’re older, like most of us reading this. 

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Chinese Dating Secrets! ‘how To Get, Date & Marry Chinese Women’

1. When dating Chinese women they rarely show their true character until after a great deal of time, sometimes not even until after marriage! This is due to a culture where the peer pressure is very high. Working out her true character before-hand is therefore a must.

2. When Chinese women are attracted to a man they will do things indirectly (much more so than a western female) to show their attraction, but without knowing the cues and signs it may pass you by. One example is if she advises you to take care of your health, or when the weather is changing to wear more clothes. This is not simply a throw-away statement on her part, as it is in western culture: she is trying to show her feelings are deeper than just simply friendship.

3. A Chinese brides expectation of marriage is based on her own culture and not necessarily yours. Don’t assume that she knows what marriage is like in your country or what will be expected of her just because you’ve heard that Chinese girls are ‘traditional’. In actual fact, the more traditional they are considered in Chinese culture, the less likely they will be able to adapt to you or your country. (note: Just because they say they are traditional, it doesn’t necessarily mean they are by the way)

4. Chinese women are seldom submissive after you really get to know them. The submissive nature you may see in the beginning months (or sometimes even years) is simply a cultural affectation that may gradually disappear and be replaced by her true character, which can be anything from generous, loving and kind, to selfish, bossy and materialistic. Find out what it truly is beforehand.

5. When dating Chinese girls the etiquette is frequently over-emphasized by them where non-Chinese males are concerned, and many suddenly become ‘ultra-traditional’, whereas with a Chinese male before, they may not have been. Breaking down this facade is therefore ‘a must’, as it can cause untold complications otherwise. Until that time you should follow the accepted Chinese dating etiquette.

6. To attract or marry a Chinese woman you must demonstrate ‘stability’, among other things. If you have a history of short term relationships it’s almost certainly best not to mention it. Even if they were when you were eighteen years old; she will simply assume you are not a good bet, and dependent on age, will be very unlikely to consider a relationship with you, no matter short-term or long-term. The majority of Chinese males I know keep their relationship history secret, and with good reason too!

7. Not all Chinese brides consider love to be an important factor in their marriage choice. Culturally in China, love and marriage have only recently become linked, and it is still far from being the norm in China. If you ask a Chinese woman you are dating or considering marriage to, if she loves you, she will almost always say “yes”. This does not however necessarily mean she is thinking of the same kind of love you are thinking of. Chinese people frequently think of the word ‘love’ as almost a verb, as in if they act loving towards you and do loving things, it is sometimes equal in their minds to love. Make sure you are both on the same wavelength first if that is important to you, and learn how to find the right one….

allow me to tell you a little about myself, my names’ Sam Reeves and I have lived and worked in China for over eight years now, as a manager for a multi-national blue-chip Chinese company. Navigating the business world in China was one thing, what with huge cultural differences, and the complexity of penetrating the Chinese mind-set, I was challenged to find solutions to problems between western and Chinese thinking and etiquette, and it was no mean feat let me tell you!

But my biggest challenge was dating Chinese women and also marrying a Chinese bride! As well as being married in China, I’d also dated Chinese women in my own country before. But NOTHING prepared me for the complexity of attracting, dating and marrying a Chinese woman, although the benefits were great it was a real learning curve…

I wasted huge amounts of time and money trying to find ‘the one’, yet there always seemed to be things about the Chinese women I was with that would blind-side me, even after years.

Amongst many other surprising situations were the woman who turned out to be another mans mistress, the woman who just wouldn’t commit in any way shape or form, yet kept hinting that she might; not to mention the usual selection of gold diggers and passport hunters that kept me busy before I worked out…

..The Hidden A, B, C of Chinese Culture & Attraction and how to spot ‘the wrong one’ a mile off!

Now, I don’t want you thinking I’m useless with women or something, because in my own country I did OK, Perhaps like you, I just always had a fascination with Chinese women.

But I found the usual rules and expectations of a relationship with a Chinese woman were almost totally different than what I had expected.

Even a lot of the stuff I read online didn’t help me much with the usual courting and dating etiquette; not to mention the subject of marriage.

I realized after many false starts and much wasted time (and money for that matter) that I could break it down into certain Chinese female character types in order to always end up with ‘the right one’. Not only that, I learned exactly how to attract almost any Chinese woman with the words I’d say and many, many other methods….

All you need to do is read ‘Chinese Dating Secrets Exposed’ and follow my winning system, I’ve done all the other work for you and laid it out in an easy to understand fashion.

many men fail with Chinese women or end up with one that just bleeds them dry in one way or another…

How To Date An Asian Woman

“How to Date an Asian Woman” is a 75 page ebook that tells you everything you need to find, attract and seduce an exotic female from the Far East including:

The names of the top ten cities in the U.S.A. (and counties) where you are likely to meet a smart, attractive and ambitious Asian woman

How to write and compose the perfect online dating profile or letter so that she starts chasing you and not the other way around

What gifts to give her right down to the kinds of flowers and perfumes she would appreciate the most

What you need to know about her culture so that she not only accepts you as a lover but grows to need you to be your partner

It doesn’t matter if the Asian woman you are longing for is a twenty year old “fly girl” from Tokyo or a 45-year-old twice divorced businesswoman from mainland China. Our step-by-step guide for a first date works every time on every Asian woman for every culture (and it is not the type of advice you will find in any other book!) Other books will simply give you a long list of suggestions for “creative” ideas for dates. We will tell you why the first date is no time to use your imagination! We will take you step-by-step through the entire First Date Ritual from shaving your nose hairs to bidding her goodnight at the door.

In fact, this book asks you forget everything that you think you know about impressing an Asian beauty. We asks you to forget your creativity (which just looks like blundering around to her) and all of your preconceptions (which just looks like racism to her) by revealing:

…and also a list of common secret motivations for why Asian women date Caucasian men so that you are never blind sided by a gold digger, a mental patient or a demanding, whiny brat masquerading as an adult ever again!

Simply paying attention to what this book has to say about Caucasian-Asian relationships will spare you hours of emails, and wondering if she is ever going to make up her mind to be with you. And there will be no question that there will be a second date!

Nobody understands yellow fever better than the author who knows exactly how unbearable unrequited desire can be! The symptoms include anxiety, restlessness, a preoccupation with Lucy Liu and a longing to tussle between the sheets with a woman with long silky black hair.

HOW TO DATE AN ASIAN WOMAN shows you how to understand each and every type of Asian woman – from the mildest to wildest by understanding what their point of view is about male white perception of them and how they have learned to manipulate those stereotypes to drive you crazy with lust!

Although these women seem mysterious and complex, we will tell you the simple secrets (some of them based on ancient wisdom from her culture) that will tame these proud beauties and have them eating out of your hand. Much of it will surprise you! This book gets right into the psychological meat of how to seduce her including the most important-

How to honor every single part of her body from head to toe including her hair, her neck, her eyes, her lips, her breasts, her back, her arms, her legs etc. and capture her love, devotion and sexual imagination forever. Nowhere, not in a bookstore, on the Internet or anywhere will you find a book on how to seduce and Asian woman as thorough, sensuous and psychologically intriguing as this one!

Knowing everything about her, from head to toe, is one of the secrets to unleashing the passionate potential that you just know is lurking inside the Asian women that you meet in every day life — that mild-mannered Asian woman that you see working as a bank teller or that gorgeous Asian go-go dancer at the club. Or perhaps you simply catch a glimpse of a photograph online that simply makes you hold your breath (and maybe something else!)

Stop jerking around and get real about taking the steps necessary to find the Asian woman of your dreams! We will feel confident about saying that because we know that is exactly what you are doing rather than grasping the fact that a future with a real flesh and blood Asian and woman is completely possible. Keep in mind too that this book is written by someone who has been there – who understands you and why you may be so much at the mercy of these gorgeous creatures that you can’t seem to find the nerve to take those all important first steps towards promoting yourself as the man of her dreams!

Do Asian women seem mysterious to you? Unattainable or even too good for you? Do you surf for erotic anime as a substitute for a real sexual experience? Do Asian women constantly blow you right off when you try to approach them?

Familiarize yourself with her way and culture so that an Asian woman (and her family) finds you more attractive.

How to Date an Asian Woman teaches you how to stop blundering and become the every day hero of these exotic enchantresses. It not only reveals where your Asian lover is coming from geographically a, but it also where “she is coming from” psychologically, emotionally and rationally before she considers dating a white male.

As a man who loves Asian women you know that they sexually supreme beings who are just as fierce and erotic as the characters you see on the silver screen and the comic book. You are dying to ask her out, but you worship her so much, that you simply are stuck in a kind of paralyzed servitude. How do you let her know how devoted you would be to you if you could only get the opportunity to lavish her with respect and affection? :

Everything you need to know about what makes Asian women tick is compiled here in one concise, easy-to read ebook so that you…

Dating Secrets By Tony Sanders

Dear Dateless Friend, Are you tired? Tired of being alone… Dreaming of a day when it’ll all be different. A day when you’re dating gorgeous women… and having real sex with them, not some cyber simulation? The day when you’ll actually be happy? Are you tired of your social life consisting of women you fantasize about, most of whom don’t even know you’re alive. And the ones who do, don’t even give you the time of day. Girls you would die to be kissing… holding… making love to. But to them, you’re invisible. That’s the way it used to be for Ben.

You can be just like Ben. You really can. But first… I need you to recall something for me. A feeling. One I’m sure you’ve felt before. It’s that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach whenever you even try to talk to a beautiful woman. That dread as you approach her… that queasiness as she rejects you. The feeling of failure you get when you strike out yet again.

Because I’m about to introduce you to the one proven dating program designed for the real guy like you. The step-by-step system that’s like strapping a jetpack onto your social life… No… it’s not a guide for those metrosexual primpers with highlights in their hair, spray-on tans and six-pack abs… And not a guide that teaches Neanderthals how to mess with a girl’s mind and self-esteem, in order to get laid. If you’re looking for a guide like that then look somewhere else. But before you do let me make this clear…

They’re a waste of money and time… and frankly… I think some of what’s in those books is borderline date rape anyway. You don’t want any part of that. You want to be able to sleep at night too. You want to be able to look in the mirror and not hate the person you’ve become. Here’s good news for you… It doesn’t have to be that way. Because… I’ve developed a simple step-by-step system that is guaranteed to turn the dorkiest of dorks… the geekiest of geeks… the averagist of average Joes… into bone fide babe magnets. I’m not kidding! I have a system unlike any other you’ve seen. But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let me back up for a second to say hello. Hi… I’m Tony Sanders. Unless you’re a serious online gamer, you probably have no idea who I am. That’s fine. It doesn’t matter if you know me or not. I need you to understand though that most women haven’t a clue who I am. They’re not into the whole gaming thing as much as guys are. The reason I need you to understand this is to prove my success with women has nothing to do with any sort of “fame” or “celebrity” status… as small as that could even be in my case. No… as far as pretty much every woman out there is concerned, I’m just an average guy. Actually… I’ll go a bit further and say I’m a little below average. Take another look at that picture a couple screens back…

What you can’t see in the picture is the paunchy belly… the fact that I burn after 3 nano-seconds in the sun… and that whenever I used to try to just talk to girls my entire head would turn beet red and I would sweat profusely. My college buddies used to say my head could help guide any ship through a foggy night… And they’d call the sweat stain down the middle of my back, “The Nile.” Not a pretty picture… LITERALLY. In fact… I was so alone… so dateless in my early 20s I became the “Would ya mind…” and “Could you please…” guy for the neighborhood. I’d get those annoying Friday and Saturday night calls…

At first I was like… “Why me? What is it about my personality that makes people expect I would even agree to this?” Then it hit me like a bucket of rocks… There’s no personality trait that puts me in this position. The reason they all asked me was simple… They all knew I wouldn’t be busy. Yep… I had the unenviable reputation as the dude who is always home alone on Friday and Saturday nights. It pissed me off to know that… Even as I was becoming well-known in the gaming community… known online as a pretty cool dude… A “go to guy” in my niche… I had no social life at all. Nada… Zero… Zilch…

The combination to the safe that contains the truth about how women think… how they feel… and how to honestly and ethically push their buttons.

Even if you’re not great looking… don’t have any money… and otherwise would be considered undateable.

You want short term success (conversation, dates, sex), you got it. You want long term success (engagement, marriage, family)… you got that too. And never use questionable tactics to achieve it.

Just my simple, quick and easy system that gets you… The same women the rich jerks get, but do it without being rich… or being a jerk. The same girls the muscled-up juiceheads get, but do it without acting like those morons do.

Easily and comfortably hold a conversation with any woman… Better than that, you’ll control the conversation. Imagine… sexy, crazy-hot girls hanging on your every word.

Instantly persuade girls who are friends to bump you up to “friends with benefits” status. Then quickly get yourself to the very top of her “To Do” list. Now you’re calling the shots.

Simply change your way of thinking… and even if you do nothing else… you still double… triple or quadruple your chances of leaving a club with the hottest women on your arm.

Impress females at every turn… even if you’re completely unimpressive to them now. Learn this one secret and you rocket your sex life into the stratosphere.

Get girls who wouldn’t talk to you before, to now beg you for your attention. This one gets a little dangerous. I ask that…

Facebook Dating Secrets

Many people login on Facebook for different reasons, looking for friends, visiting family, playing games, sharing photos or just sending useless messages to everyone. But not for everyone this is the reason to go on Facebook, many people are unconsciously looking for the perfect date on Facebook!

Facebook with more than 500 million active users there are thousands of women in your area online right now, but it is difficult to get a clear overview how you can really find you perfect hot woman.

Searching for one-night stand, solid relationship or simply finding a woman of your dreams can be very difficult, unless you know how to use Facebook as dating tool.

Do you really think you are the only person on earth with this problem? I was in the same position as you a couple years ago. I’ve spent thousands of dollars on dating membership sites without results!

I have seen a lot of women on all the dating sites that I’ve signed up, but I always got the same problems. I didn’t had a clue how to introduce myself and the worst of all – the woman I thought was perfect for me turned out to be totally not my type. Question marks, question marks and question marks again! What am I doing wrong? I started to doubt myself. I thought I will never find a stable relationship or a hot chick, someone who fits me for once. It seemed I could say nothing right, do nothing well, and my jokes were not understood on the other side of the PC.

Once been introduced to Facebook because my friends always rave about it, I tried again. Sending friend requests. “Hey how are you?”, “Everything okay?”, “Would you like to drink something?”. No message or comment back. “Shall we go to dinner once? I will pay!”. Again no response back. “I just want to share the bed for once, and I pay the whole evening :D” – again no response, I started to doubt myself again, it seemed I couldn’t get any woman, I was unsecure on the Internet. Even wtih millions of women on Facebook my jokes where not accepted to fill in a perfect night with a perfect woman I really wanted.

I went on a personal mission on the internet, spending months reading and learning everything I could on the internet about how to meet woman online. I realized that I never ever approached woman well. The way I started and ended conversations was wrong. The kind of photos I posted on my profile, I had no idea they would have such a great impact.

Time to start over and use the things I’ve learned from my research. I ended all my dating subscriptions and didn’t wanna spend countless dollars again in the search for that someone special and end up with nothing. So I was thinking about to use these methods on Facebook because it’s free and I still had my personal account there.

After two months sending friend requests, good (chat) conversations on Facebook I went from depressed uncertain person to the happiest man in the world! I GOT MY FIRST DATE! We dated for a long time but ended on friendly terms and we agreed to be friends.

After two years and a lot of fun with dates I finally found the most amazing, fabulous woman in my life. We married in 2009 and we are expecting our first baby in August 2011. It never crossed my mind, but what it means is; know how to approach a woman, how to start conversations and more important how to use Facebook as dating site.

Thats’ why I have decided to publish all the things I have learned, the strategies I used and my personal experience in an ebook for you. Because I don’t have to use it anymore…

If you know how to use Facebook as dating tool, you will have the power to increase your dating success!

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Like I said many people login on Facebook for different reasons, looking for friends, visiting family, playing games, sharing photos or just sending useless messages to everyone. I will show you how to use it as dating tool.

Your profile is the “first impression”. I will show you how to fill in your info (interests, status, likes etc.), what type of photos are the best to upload and many more.

Search is the first step in your quest to find someone on Facebook. I will show you the tips and tricks how to find your date on Facebook.

This part is one of the most difficult things you have to do. The first step is to talk to a woman or send her a friend request. Many people don’t know how to start a conversation. Again, this is one of the most difficult parts of dating and I will teach you step by step how to act.

This is actually even more difficult than starting the communication. You will soon realize that keeping the conversation warm is much more difficult than starting it. Again, I will show you some tips, tricks and secrets how to do this well.

Facebook is full of applications, from games to other funny apps. But did you know there are also free dating applications on Facebook? I will show you the top apps and how to use them.

Your date search is over, your quest is complete! But your journey has only begun. You can have a date, but a date does not guarantee that you will start a relationship or have a one-night-stand. To make this happen you have to…

Online Dating Insides

“Discover The Shocking Strategies Used By Online Dating Pros To Stand Out From The Crowd And Land More Dates Than The “Beefiest” Guy On The Market!”

Date: Dear Friend, Forget everything you think you know about finding the perfect partner online, and stop driving yourself crazy wondering why you just can’t seem to generate the attention that you’re looking for within the online dating communities. Believe it or not, online dating is no different than trying to pick up a woman offline.. You need to represent yourself as a real catch and lure her in with wit, charm and humor. Not a witty guy, and couldn’t crack a joke to save your life? Don’t stress it, there’s other things you can do to generate buzz in the community and flood your inbox with more requests for “online dates” than you’d ever thought possible.. and best of all, regardless of what you’ve been told about online dating communities, you don’t have to look like a Calvin Klein model to get the job done.. “From Geek To Sheik..” If you’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed by the number of profiles you’re competing against within the dating communities, or you’re brand new to the world of online dating and are terrified that you’ll screw it up or get it wrong, I’m here to help. I started exploring the online dating world back in 2001 when the only way to really find a date was to join a chat room or hang out on a forum, hoping that you’d meet someone who was interested in some of the things you were.. These matchmaking profile gimmicks? Didn’t exist, nor did the whole ‘compatibility test’ procedures that are now crammed down our throats.. Are you going to allow a machine to tell you who is perfect for you? Seriously, what BS.. Back then, few of us got any luckier than we would if we went out on the local club scene and tried to buy our way into a woman’s heart with drinks and a bit of charm.. But man, have things changed. These days, even the biggest geek (like me) can put themselves front and center, smack dab in the middle of the hottest dating communities and with a few little “tweaks” to the profile, we can literally box out any competition from the egotistical idiots that claim to be the King of the Hill. You don’t have to be the best looking guy to find the woman of your dreams.. and if you’re looking for some relaxed companionship with no strings attached, there’s someone out there for you as well. In fact, regardless of your interests, lifestyle or personality, I guarantee that there are women out there that match up to every requirement you have.. You just have to know where to look, and how to dig down into the dating industry so that you are able to attract women to your profile, like steel to a magnet.. And I’m about to show you exactly how to do this, quickly and easily..

“Online Dating Strategies That Level Out The Playing Field And Put You In Full Control Of Your Social Life!”

Getting involved in online dating has been one of the most exciting things I’ve done in a long, long time. Logging into my accounts only to find hundreds of emails from women dying to get my phone number, or spend some time talking offline … well, it doesn’t get any better than that. Not having to chase after a relationship, or go through the ridiculous process of ‘wine and dine’ only to find out that what you thought was the girl of your dreams turns out to be a hellish nightmare.. well, I don’t know about you, but I’d prefer to skip all that. With online dating, you can weed through profiles, choose the people who you want to meet and ignore anyone who comes along that doesn’t catch your eye. You can be as particular as you want, after all, it’s your life you’re willing to share right? So, you need to make sure that the people you are potentially hooking up with are exactly what they appear to be.. Online dating offers you an instant connection to the pulse of the singles marketplace. Rather than wasting time and money on dates that just don’t go anywhere, you can get to know someone right from the comfort of your home, sparing yourself from awkward situations where you’re dying to escape from the date but just don’t know how to. And better, with online dating you avoid the humiliation of potential rejection. By spending time getting to know someone BEFORE you meet them, you’re maximizing your chances that you’ll truly connect with that special someone.. after all, you’ll both have invested yourselves into the “getting to know you” process long before you actually meet. There’s absolutely no better, easier, cheaper or faster way to find that perfect someone than with online dating.. But there’s a catch.. You MUST Stand Out From The Crowd.. Slapping up a profile with some cute photo isn’t going to cut it, not with thousands of other guys eager to swoon the same women that you’re interested in. You need to take a drastically different approach to online dating than what 99.9% of the other guys are doing if you really want to successfully land as many dates as you can with high quality women.. With my simple, comprehensive (and foolproof) strategy, you will be able to design a high traffic profile that stands out from the crowded marketplace and drives in visitors in unstoppable waves.. You will be able to attract more attention in a shorter amount of time than the competition AND you’ll attract the type of women you’re interested in.. Never waste time or money again struggling to find that special someone before your next month’s subscription fee is due.. Learn the secrets to landing as many dates as your schedule can handle – instantly! Here is just a…

Online Dating Safety Kit

STOP! Looking for love in all the wrong places! Save yourself time and money by choosing the right site for you!

STOP! Making the same mistakes that so many other people are making and start making safer and smarter decisions to avoid the dangers of online dating!

STOP! Chasing away your prospects for love by saying the wrong thing. Learn how to FLIRT and COMMUNICATE more effectively!

STOP! Drifting through the online maze of internet dating sites and leaving yourself vunerable to predators and scammers!

START! Enjoying your online experience with the proper tools to remain safe from predators and scams!

Welcome to the World of Online Dating, Online dating has become so popular that you need a tour guide to navigate your way through all of the sites. Sites now cater to just about any objective or group, from religious beliefs to sexual orientation. The same things that make online dating convenient make it dangerous. With so many people looking to make a connection online, Predators and Scammers are making a good living off of the people who do not protect themselves. The internet is full of horror stories about people who have fallen victim to these con artists. From emotional and financial victims to unimaginable physical abuses, the journey of finding your ideal match can be a dangerous undertaking. Dating is supposed to be fun and exciting… and it can be if you have the proper tools to defend against the not so honest people that are waiting to take advantage of you. The Emotional Self Defense Group has put together an A-Z program to help make online dating fun and safe for the online daters.

The Online Dating Survival Kit was developed in co-operation with experts in many fields. It is the goal of The Emotional Self Defense Group to make online dating a safe and fun environment for all of those who wish to take advantage of developing an online meeting and transforming it into a rewarding relationship. From seasoned online daters to the online newbies, The Online Dating Survival Kit offers the key to online dating success. Using the right form of communication at the right time can make the difference in having a second date or even a second conversation. In The Online Dating Survival Kit you will learn the key to communicating effectively with a new friend or within a relationship. A relationship holds a delicate balance of actions and reactions. Knowing when to give and when to take is crucial to a successful relationship, whether it is long term or short term. Using the tools in The Online Dating Survival Kit, you will increase your chances of beginning a new, or continuing an existing relationship successfully. With the assistance of a former online predator, we will show you the best safe guards against scams and how to avoid becoming a victim.

WARNING: Research has shown that Online Daters can spend up to 2 years and thousands of dollars, running around in circles looking for the right match. The Online Dating Safety Kit can reduce your costs and the frustration of wasted time and money while searching for your happily ever after online. Everyday people invest money to protect themselves buy purchasing insurance policies that they hope they never have to use. Car Insurance $1,200/yearly House Insurance $750/yearly Doesn’t it just make sense to get yourself some emotional insurance that you can use every single day to avoid a tragedy rather than recover from one? You wouldn’t swim with the sharks without a shark cage. Get your peace of mind and guide to success to protect yourself emotionally as well as physically.

Module #1 – Survival Kit When it comes to online dating many people seem to just jump in without taking the proper precautions. The Online Dating Survival Kit is designed to teach online daters how to find the happiness they are looking for while remaining safe.

Module #2 – Getting Started Mixing safety with common sense will greatly increase your chances to avoid becoming an internet horror story. Online dating is an effective way to meet new people and begin new relationships regardless of your dating history. First timers, widows and widowers, divorced and divorcee everything in between are finding their dream partners.

Module #3 – How to Create an Effective Profile An effective profile is vital to online dating success. It is after all the first impression others will have of you. Using these tools will help you create an interesting yet effective and safe profile while using the internet to find your ideal partner.

Module #4 – Dating Safety Volume One Protecting yourself from online scammers is a simple matter of common sense and using the tools provided. Do not let your quest for happiness end up causing you heartache or financial hardship.

Module #5 – Online Dating Safety Volume Two There are worse things than having your heart broken and your bank account pilfered. Online predators pose a serious threat to those who are seeking happiness online. Use these tools to prevent becoming a victim of these monsters.

Module #7 – The Art of Flirting Flirting is the key to attracting someone’s attention There is a fine line between flirting and being sleazy. Knowing where that line is can mean the difference between clever and being rude.

Module #6 – Effective Communication Many relationships fail for the wrong reason. Effective communication can increase the odds of success by helping to avoid misunderstandings.

Module # 8 – The First Date The first date is important for many reasons. It is possible to have an interesting first date while remaining safe. Getting your relationship off on the right foot while avoiding dangerous encounters is not as difficult as it seems.

Module #9(a) – Understanding Her Module #9(b) – Understanding Him No one will ever have a complete understanding of the opposite sex, but having a better understanding will help you communicate more effectively with your partner.

Module #10 – Making it Work After all your hard work to find a new partner you want to give your…